When you think of Valentine’s Day, you think of love, romance, gifts, candy, flowers and
time spent with your spouse/partner. When a Private Investigator thinks of Valentine’s
Day, he thinks of cheating spouses and infidelity. Interestingly, Valentine’s Day is the
busiest time of the year nationally for private investigators.
Valentine’s Day is the one holiday that an unfaithful spouse will not ignore. One
characteristic about meeting on Valentine’s Day is the apparent need for the unfaithful
spouse to spend more time together than they usually do. They might offer sexy
lingerie, cards, gifts and candy in an attempt to make the occasion special. Suspicious
about your spouse’s behavior?, Valentine’s Day provides you an excellent opportunity
to obtain the truth. An extramarital meeting is often predictable and usually happens
on or within the close proximity of Valentine’s Day.
Unfaithful spouses often become immersed in the excitement of their encounters
subsequently become unaware as to who may be following them. This excitement also
makes their exposure even easier.
Even considering that your spouse may be cheating is a painful and difficult
experience. With divorce rates high, if you have a suspicion that your spouse is
unfaithful, you may be right. Some signs of infidelity you may have noticed from your
partner may include the following:
• Changes in hygiene and clothing. A spouse might get a new hairstyle, and
begin wearing new and trendier clothes.
• Suddenly has a number of new social or sexual interests. Are new or unique
requests being made in your bedroom? It could be the result of experiences
during a tryst with another.
• Does not want you in their vehicle. A spouse could be worried that a different
perfume or cologne might be detected, or a discarded receipt from a
restaurant discovered.
• Asks about your schedule more often than usual.
• Makes secret telephone calls, emails or text messages. Do you notice your
spouse retreating from the room frequently when taking a call?
• Cell phone calls from you are not returned in a timely fashion. Does your spouse
typically pick up your calls when at lunch, or “out with some friends”? Not taking
your calls is a surefire sign a spouse may be where they shouldn’t.
• Acts preoccupied or distant when with you. This can be reflected in a number of
ways, at times showing signs of guilt or brooding.
Private investigators can assist you in obtaining the proof you need to give you the
peace of mind needed to move forward with your life. By utilizing professional
investigative techniques and advanced surveillance methods, a private investigator will
obtain the evidence you need.
If the private investigator obtains solid proof that your spouse is indeed faithful, the
peace of mind this brings can help ensure that your relationship survives the suspicion.
Conversely, the findings may not be pleasant. Nonetheless, with the evidence in hand,
you can now confront your mate with confidence. If you choose a fresh start, the
information that a private investigator can prove to be a major legal advantage
regarding the eventual divorce settlement.
Recommendation: Never “threaten” to hire an investigator, since this will make the
suspected spouse suspicious and more difficult to watch.
The private investigators at the Investigative Support Group, Inc. (ISG) always use
discretion and respect with every case and investigative services are always 100%
confidential. We realize that your pain and fear are real, thus each ISG Investigator
takes an empathetic approach to each case they accept.
By Alan Payton, President of the Investigative Support Group, Inc.
The INVESTIGATIVE SUPPORT GROUP, INC. is a full service Investigative Agency serving
the entire state of Florida. In addition to surveillance, ISG specializes in
Background/Nanny checks, Criminal Defense, Asset searches and Accident/Product
Liability Investigations. Contact ISG at 727-515-4141, or toll free at 877-784-2469.
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